Written by Daniel Wolfert

The Key is to be Free.

A man meditates in the desert.

One of the amazing contradictions of the 3D material realm is that it indoctrinates us to spend our time and energy to obtain possessions and wealth that we will ultimately surrender when we cross back over to the spiritual (energetic) life. It’s very ironic that as short as our time is here, many people play the materialism game at the expense of their health and happiness only to realize too late that life on Earth is VERY short and they can’t take any of their coveted wealth or possessions with them.

A young couple look at each other lovingly.

Still other people put all their happiness expectations in the relationships they cultivate, expecting that those they give love to will love them back in reciprocal fashion, thus bringing them happiness. This can be very frustrating, and lead to manipulative behavior because try as we might, there’s no way to guarantee that the love you give will be requited. In fact, it’s almost certain that if you give with the expectation that you will receive, you will be disappointed by the return. This is because true love is not transactional in nature. It must be given freely and without conditions. If there are conditions attached, it becomes contractual and resentment ensues when one party is seen to not fulfill their obligations. Which may be why over 50% of modern marriages fail.

Which brings us to the subject of detachment. This is a much misunderstood state of being, and probably the hardest lesson to learn while living in the 3D material world. One interpretation of detachment is that a person doesn’t own anything. Another is that a person doesn’t care about anyone but themselves. Both are incorrect.

A meme that explains that detachment is not being owned by the things you possess.

The true meaning of being detached is that you don’t expect things or other people to make you happy. In other words, you are detached from expectations. You understand that you have no true ownership of any thing or person because all are only momentarily in your life. Ownership is a temporary illusion. Further, happiness is a gift you give yourself and not dependent on any thing or any person.

This is not to say that you can’t be happy for the things and people in your life. In truth, detachment is being thankful for all your situations while knowing that none of them is responsible for your happiness. Your bliss comes from within and is not the product of some external relationship or possession. This is remarkably freeing because often we find ourselves disappointed by people and things. Often they fail to meet our expectations. But, if we have no expectations we are free to appreciate them for exactly who and what they are, without conditions.

A meme that reads "He that is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have."

But this is so hard to do in the material world because we’re indoctrinated from an early age to think that if we can just find the right partner and job and house and car and amount of money etc., etc., etc., we will be happy. Thus we experience the “pursuit of happiness” rather than a life of happiness. In this condition people find themselves always trying to acquire or “trade up” to possess that thing(s) or person(s) that will fill their emptiness/loneliness.

Contrast this with the person who understands that the source of their happiness is themselves. They wake up and decide to be happy through unconditional appreciation and therefore everything they possess and every relationship they are involved in, brings them gratitude. Even relationships where the love is unequal or even unrequited. You read that right, it wasn’t a misprint. True love is about giving, not receiving. The hardest lesson to learn is to love without expectations. To truly care for the well-being of another when they give you nothing in return- and without resentment.

A meme that reads "Real love by definition must by unconditional. Anything less is hiding an agenda of control."

I’m not saying this is easy or that one should stay in a relationship that’s abusive or even unfulfilling. Rather, what I’m saying is that just because you’re not in a relationship with someone where they are returning your love, is no reason to stop caring for their well-being and wishing them happiness and success. Now you understand why I said this is a hard lesson to learn. Admittedly, I fail more that I succeed at this one.

You might wonder what this has to do with Manifestation which is the core theme of this blog? Everything. As we’ve said many times, to manifest something you need to be in a resonant or matching vibration with that something. If you’re trying to manifest something that you think will bring you happiness, you’re essentially in a vibration of unhappiness. Therefore you’re a frequency mismatch to your intended manifestation and a match to your current state of unhappiness. Remember, you don’t manifest what you want, but who you are.

A meme that reads "When you need less, you will have more."

Which is why if you can decide to be happy in your current state, you will manifest more things and/or circumstances that will add to your happiness. That’s why it’s called the Law of Attraction and not the Law of Manifestation. Because like vibration attracts like vibration. This is one of the paradoxes of life. Anything you manifest while in a state of discontent, will only bring you more discontent. But if you manifest from a state of inherent happiness, you will attract something that adds to your happiness and contentment.

The key is to be truly free from expectations that your happiness will be gained from something external to yourself.

To read more on this topic, click the following links: Consistency is the Key, The Power of Joy, Expansive Abundance and Vanquishing Low Vibration Limitations.

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